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Thursday, 12 June 2014
quote [ This point is so intensely arousing to me that although i cannot often summon the concentration of mind to simply hold and press it myself (i tend to keep up the circular motion until i come), when my partner takes control and prepares me by making the circular motion until i have peaked and backed off (by relaxing) several times and then presses the "eleven o'clock" point firmly while i relax deeply, i have the sensation of orgasm without contraction or culmination. This sensation continues for a very long time, as long as the pressure applied is firm but gentle. ]
Ask SE in extended.
Do you guys have any links to good discussions of sex and sexuality? Something like the link I posted, but on a variety of topics? Or even book recommendations. I also have the link previously posted here (the fine art of penis thrusting):
http://www.sensibleendowment.com/entry.php/32 Apart from the general splendidness of having such links on hand, it so happens that I have two friends which I think would have especially good use for such info. One of them is a thirty year old lad who has no sexual experience whatsoever, not even kissing. We have been talking about sex and I've told him a bit about what I find important and interesting when it comes to sex. But knowing his personality, I think he would definitely enjoy and benefit from all kinds of texts on sexual matters. Hints and tips on seduction, kissing, intercourse, oral sex and what have you. My other friend is a lass with a submissive streak, recently entered into a relationship with a vanilla fellow. He is willing to experiment with her preferences, but not being a particularly kinky person by nature it might be good for him to have some text upon the submissive experience. Something which can give voice to all those little things which a submissive may feel but not know how to put into words. Also, if you have any nice smut to share, I'd love me some smut to read. To provide some smut in return, I read this story a little while ago, and rather liked it. For smut it was certainly tolerably written. I gather that it has also been published in pulped dead tree format (Redtail by Devon Layne) http://storiesonline.net/s/75515 http://www.amazon.com/Devon-Layne/e/B009L4XMP6/
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GordonGuano said @ 12:38am GMT on 12th Jun
[Score:1 WTF]
Protip: pay attention to what someone does with their mouth and tongue during French kissing. They're usually (not always) telling you how they want to be gone down on. Works for men and women. YMMV, of course.
For me, the pinnacle (or perhaps the Marianas Trench) of smut will always be this bestiality Full House fan fiction: Abandon hope, all ye who enter. |
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foobar said @ 3:37am GMT on 12th Jun
[Score:1 Funny]
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snowfox said @ 4:45am GMT on 12th Jun
[Score:1 Underrated]
The motions needed to properly stimulate a penis would be really weird in someone's mouth, and likewise with the motions for a clitoris.
I have no idea how you came to your conclusion, so we'll need video for analysis. |
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GordonGuano said @ 5:34am GMT on 12th Jun
If imgur worked on my phone, this is where I would put a pic or a gif of Ron Jeremy eating a banana in Orgazmo.
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Skuld said @ 5:38am GMT on 12th Jun
Seconded, video requested!
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jarringpeach said @ 2:29am GMT on 12th Jun
[Score:1 Informative]
The most useful book I've ever had was a 70s edition of The Joy of Sex, given to me by the mother of a classmate when I was 15. I'm sure a revised edition would be highly informative and beneficial.
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sanepride said @ 2:45am GMT on 12th Jun
[Score:2]
Ah...those drawings of the hairy hippies gettin' it on...definitely provided me with some adolescent fapping material.
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Skuld said @ 8:23pm GMT on 12th Jun
Found a torrent of the revised edition. Should certainly be useful.
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blacksun said @ 7:03am GMT on 12th Jun
[Score:1 Informative]
I'm reading Domination and Submission by Michael Makai. It's quite comprehensive and seems to cover just about everything that could come up in the kink and D/s world.
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arrowhen said @ 7:19am GMT on 12th Jun
[Score:1 WTF]
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KingPellinore said @ 1:40pm GMT on 12th Jun
[Score:1 Funny]
KingPellinore's two sentence course in cunnilingus:
Begin like a butterfly kissing a flower petal. Finish like a bulldog eating a bowl of oatmeal. |
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mechanical contrivance said @ 8:18pm GMT on 12th Jun
Sage advice, even if I am now quite disgusted.
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AssBastard said @ 2:10pm GMT on 14th Jun
[Score:1 Underrated]
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Skuld said @ 8:00pm GMT on 14th Jun
The first one is so incredibly American. From my Nordic cultural perspective it is just weird. It seems to be written to keep conservative people less likely to go bonkers. Which is a good thing, but just doesn't work so well in an environment like the Nordic countries.
The latter one, nice! Thank you! |
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mechanical contrivance said @ 2:37am GMT on 15th Jun
I'm intrigued. What do you find weird about it? How is Nordic cultural perspective different than American when it comes to sex?
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GordonGuano said @ 3:43am GMT on 15th Jun
[Score:1 Funny]
"In Sweden underwear is worn as a fetish, you know the kinky stuff. But the really exciting sexual stuff is free-balling."
-Skwisgaar Skwigelf |
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Skuld said @ 7:46am GMT on 15th Jun
It is a bit hard to put a finger on exactly what it is. But it is in the phrasing and presentation.
It feels a bit like the site is trying very hard to sell that sex is actually ok to have, and nothing to be ashamed of. But I think that is far more of a given fact here than it is in the US. You don't need to convince Nordic teens so hard that it is fine to masturbate and boink each other. You have to tell them to be careful about not getting STIs and about not accidentally procreating, but to tell them that it's fine to rub your bits against someone else's bits mostly just makes you look silly. I have of course never been in the US, nor have I humped anyone from there, but it seems to me that the Americans I have known in person tend to have more hangups about nudity, their own bodies and sex than the Nordics I know. This is reflected in the site, because the audience is one where being at ease with sex is not something you would expect everyone to be. I am of course not saying every person in the US is like that, or that every Nordic person is perfectly at ease, but the proportions are far from being the same. I know if I'd send that link to my inexperienced friend he'd just look at me as if I had a stroke. Unless he'd assume I had sent it as a jest. It would be a considerable departure from our normal conversation. Which this week involved genital numbness whilst bike racing, and hypothetical attempts to masturbate under such conditions. |
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AssBastard said @ 10:38am GMT on 15th Jun
[Score:1 WTF]
I will relate this story to you. In high school (An oppressive christian private school that was part of the Calvary megachurch's flagship church, that I had gone to from age 5-18), the time came for sex ed. They gathered the girls together and put them into a big room, and they gathered the boys together and brought us into the gym. The gym teacher, a stocky, burly, hairy man that never exerted himself while making the kids exercise, stood in front of the lot of us, probably 50-100 of us, and said "Change your chonies every day, and keep your zipper up. Let's play some basketball."
And we did. And that was the extent of our sex education that year. |
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Skuld said @ 11:10am GMT on 15th Jun
That is unbelievably tragic, and illustrates the difference really well. I remember being something like 12 years old and having an exam on human reproduction, including all manner of STIs, contraceptive methods, and anatomy, including erogenous zones. This wasn't even sex ed (which I have never had per se), it was just a basic part of human biology class. Then we also had seminars where young adults talked about all kinds of things relating to sex.
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steele said @ 11:44am GMT on 15th Jun
To be fair, America isn't entirely oppressive christian private schools. Supporters of those methods usually just happen to be the loudest. I grew up in Jersey during the 80's /early 90's and can remember sex ed class in 7th grade (11-12 years old?) of public school that involved us watching a video of a woman giving birth. I was also very lucky in that my family was always very open about talking about sex and using sexual humor. If my grandmother knew that there was a song about why a wizard's staff has a knob on the end I'm sure she would have sang it ;)
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Skuld said @ 12:04pm GMT on 15th Jun
That's a proper granny!
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arrowhen said @ 4:04pm GMT on 15th Jun
Yeah, I had sex-ed in public school in the 80s, too. It seemed like their goal was to make sex seem both boring ("circle the Cowper's gland on this mimeographed diagram") and terrifying ("watch this baby being born; lady parts are pretty gross, aren't they? Now look at this penis covered in warts! Oh, and AIDS!") at the same time.
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snowfox said @ 5:35pm GMT on 15th Jun
They just told us that 1 in 4 will get STDs and to not have sex at all. There were abstinence pledges.
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mechanical contrivance said @ 2:33am GMT on 16th Jun
I went to public school. We learned about puberty, anatomy, contraceptives and STDs. We never looked at diseased dicks or watched births, though.
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Skuld said @ 7:51am GMT on 16th Jun
It was not when we were 12, but a bit later. Then pictures of venereal diseases were a part of the curriculum.
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steele said @ 12:03pm GMT on 15th Jun
[Score:1 Hot Pr0n]
You didn't mention if your lad friend is into women or not, but Jude Schell is a lesbian author that has written a hardcover very nice picture book about the female body and female orgasms called Her Sweet Spot: 101 Sexy Ways to Find and Please It . She's also written a couple of other books on lesbian sex, describing positions and maneuvers that while not all doable by a man can give some ideas and get the imagination flowing. The first of which was Lesbian Sex: 101 Lovemaking Positions.
Oh, also, I've found Robert Greene's book Art of Seduction to be an interesting mix of history, psychology, and philosophy. Oh! Also, also, Nancy Friday's My Secret Garden offers up an excellent platter that cover the basic archetypes of female fantasies for your consumption. It's an older book, but many of the old school fantasies still apply in today's world; Bestiality, dominance, group sex, prostitution, etc... |
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maryyugo said @ 6:28pm GMT on 16th Jun
"Not doable by a man" and most often not needed by a man due to the extra equipment nature designed.
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Skuld said @ 10:37pm GMT on 16th Jun
Those sound excellent!
Yes, I believe he mostly fancies women, but not entirely exclusively. |
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steele said @ 11:49pm GMT on 16th Jun
I was just asking because I don't have any male on male stuff ;)
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Skuld said @ 12:18am GMT on 17th Jun
Alas, for the love of cock! Where are the essays on the devouring of manhood?
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mechanical contrivance said @ 12:31am GMT on 17th Jun
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steele said @ 12:52am GMT on 17th Jun
PM a copy when you finally write them ;)
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Skuld said @ 5:48am GMT on 17th Jun
I might be too busy practicing to preach...
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steele said @ 12:03pm GMT on 17th Jun
Then how can you expect more from anyone else?
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Skuld said @ 6:59pm GMT on 17th Jun
Because other people have even more greatness in them than I do.
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steele said @ 9:40pm GMT on 17th Jun
That's just what they want you to think. Don't give in to the hype.
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robotroadkill said @ 1:06am GMT on 12th Jun
Holy christ.
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robotroadkill said @ 1:07am GMT on 12th Jun
Oops, supposed to be a reply to the full house bestiality post.
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maryyugo said @ 8:14pm GMT on 12th Jun
"quote [ This point is so intensely arousing to me that although i cannot often summon the concentration of mind to simply hold and press it myself (i tend to keep up the circular motion until i come), when my partner takes control and prepares me by making the circular motion until i have peaked and backed off (by relaxing) several times and then presses the "eleven o'clock" point firmly while i relax deeply, i have the sensation of orgasm without contraction or culmination. This sensation continues for a very long time, as long as the pressure applied is firm but gentle. ]"
* D'ya mind if I make an extra copy of that to keep by the bedside ? That way, I can refer to it from time to time or just read it the whole time while we "do it". It's a bit complicated and I really don't want to miss complying with every last bit of it. What fun. |
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Skuld said @ 8:20pm GMT on 12th Jun
You should write to her and ask for the collector's edition, where a sundial is used.
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maryyugo said @ 8:59pm GMT on 12th Jun
Not a whip, rubber duck and an inner tube?
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mechanical contrivance said @ 11:56pm GMT on 12th Jun
A straw, a piece of string and an M&M.
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Skuld said @ 6:34am GMT on 13th Jun
All manner of Rube Goldberg devices!
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mechanical contrivance said @ 1:13pm GMT on 13th Jun
I want to see a sex toy that's powered by a squirrel running in a hamster wheel.
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Skuld said @ 9:38pm GMT on 13th Jun
[Score:1 Insightful]
Finally a way for rodents of the smaller varieties to participate in humans' sex lives without grave risk of death or injury.
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